Speak Dream

After more than 3 months of not putting up any new posts, I’m back!

Been having a hard time coping with work-related stress and trying to strive for a balanced life. It’s affected my health and ability to be happy and enjoy life. It’s a real challenge to stay focused on the positive and to learn to handle things better. I am still a work in progress, after all

I will be sharing more in upcoming posts, as I am making it one of my goals to update this site regularly (at least 2x a week)!

Although I don’t focus on the negative aspects of other people, but sometimes I do notice the negative behaviors. I try to check them against my own life, and trying to improve my own attitude and behavior.

I found out that when we live our lives with higher self-esteem, we can automatically avoid a lot of the following negative behaviors.

Inability to trust
Compares self to others
Gossiping
Inability to take criticism
Scarcity mentality
Defensiveness
Avoidance of rejection
Avoidance of potential failure
Resentment of others
Tendency to tear others down
Aggressive behavior
Procrastination
Concern with who is right
Inability to accept compliments
Unwillingness to take risks
Quick to the offense

Hope everyone can live a more positive life.