Although I don’t focus on the negative aspects of other people, but sometimes I do notice the negative behaviors. I try to check them against my own life, and trying to improve my own attitude and behavior.

I found out that when we live our lives with higher self-esteem, we can automatically avoid a lot of the following negative behaviors.

Inability to trust
Compares self to others
Gossiping
Inability to take criticism
Scarcity mentality
Defensiveness
Avoidance of rejection
Avoidance of potential failure
Resentment of others
Tendency to tear others down
Aggressive behavior
Procrastination
Concern with who is right
Inability to accept compliments
Unwillingness to take risks
Quick to the offense

Hope everyone can live a more positive life.